Back in the summer of 2005, I found myself between a rock and a hard place.
On April 19, 2005, exactly one month after my second child was born, I quit my job to pursue a new career as a financial planner. I was able to do this because I had received a bonus and, at the time, it was enough to pay my bills for about 2 or 3 months.
Now, I did have a plan. I had partnered with a successful financial planner. He was going to pay me a commission for calling his leads and getting them to attend free dinners. He would then give them a presentation to encourage them to invest with him.
Everything looked like it was going to work out perfectly.
Except one little thing happened that I did not expect.
The local paper in which my “partner” was advertising went belly up the same week I quit my job. And just like that,
All the Leads Dried Up!
Well, I didn’t let that discourage me. I began calling all the old leads in the database… and actually succeeded in filling a couple dinners.
This was no easy task. I was calling leads up to 12 months old — and they didn’t remember anything about the postcard they filled out a year ago.
I might as well have been cold-calling.
Two months later, I had made a couple hundred bucks and was going nowhere fast. Not to mention, my bonus money was nearly gone. I estimated I had about two weeks of money left before I would be unable to pay my bills.
Now, I could have gone back to my previous employer and begged for my old job back… or I could have tried to find a new job… but deep down I didn’t really want another job.
I wanted to be self-employed!
So I did what any slightly crazy entrepreneur would do: I started my freelance copywriting business.
And here I am four years later, still enjoying the freelancer’s life.
Why did I succeed where so many others fail? There are probably many reasons, but the biggest reason of all is
I Had No Choice!
I literally had to make it work… or face losing my house, my cars, and everything else. I had no “plan B.”
In fact, “plan A” was “plan B!”
It seems that among successful entrepreneurs, many of them have experienced a similar “moment of truth” — a moment when they had no choice but to succeed.
As Ken McCarthy points out in his System Secrets book, “Having been in desperate straits more than once in my life, I know there is nothing like ‘do or die’ to focus the mind.” (p. 146)
This is a big reason I think having a “plan B” is overrated. In fact, if you’ve got all kinds of contingencies and backup plans in place, they may even be keeping you from succeeding!
That’s because anytime there’s a safety net, we’re likely to use it. It’s just human nature. We’ll set out to try something new, give it less than our best effort, then fall back into the relative comfort of our “safety net hammock.”
Why?
Because the Safety Net Is There.
Whenever you have a “plan B” or backup plan or safety net, it’s probably blocking you from the success you seek.
You don’t hear many success stories from 30-year-old guys living in their parents’ basements. Now you know why.
You know who else has a great “moment of truth” story?
Copywriter and “kitchen table entrepreneur” Doberman Dan.
He tells of a time when he turned his back on a job (in spite of having almost nothing to his name) — and then digging down deep to pull out a five-figure income in a matter of months.
It’s a great story filled with lessons for the observant marketer. I highly recommend you take a moment to read it here:
From Kitchen Table Business to Million-Dollar Buyout
-Ryan M. Healy




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Great post. I know when I lived in New Mexico, owning a house free and clear Itaxes were $300 a year!) and no real expenses, I had less motivation than when I moved to Seattle. Suddenly there were all sorts of reasons to make money!
I can't help wondering if this advice applies universally. Some people will be motivated to dig in and do whatever it takes. Others will get the deer in the headlights syndrome. I've had clients who felt poor when their income went below $300K and others who slept easily not knowing where the next month's rent or mortgage payment was coming from.
Cathy – That's an interesting contrast… the person who feels poor making less than $300K a year and the person who sleeps easy even when they don't have money to pay the bills.
Although generally the more you make, the more you spend — so a guy or gal who makes $300K may actually be “poor” from a cash flow perspective. Every dollar that comes in goes right back out!
Ryan
You're completely right on this. Although I'm dedicated, I know my growth is slower because I have a working spouse. For me, plan B is that I have the freedom to go back into the workforce.
Honestly though, plan B should not make one feel TOO safe. Any plan B can disappear quickly too.
Hi Ryan,
I finally got my head out of my backside and opted into your subscriber list.
Wow.
I couldn't muster enough cliches in an afternoon to properly extol all the luminous insights you come up with.
Keep on truckin.'
Lawrence
Well said, my friend. Well said.
By many reports, Julius Caesar (and George Washington) would be proud. :-)
Well I'm totally flattered. :-)
Good to see you here, Lawrence!
Ryan
Forget Plan B! http://bit.ly/6GsVca
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I couldn't agree more Ryan.
When I struck out on my own I initially had a Plan B. After 6 months, if things weren't working out I would go looking for a job back with a large consulting firm. And there were no shortage of offers.
But I remember calling my wife after a couple of months and telling her “I can't go back”. I was just enjoying the freedom too much.
We scrapped Plan B and focused on making the thing we were enjoying so much a success. And 'cos there was no Plan B any more we did it with greater urgency and passion.
Ian
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Plan B for any entrepreneur is simple: a willingness to adapt! Great Post.
Don’t put all your faith in plan B – blog post by @healymonster http://bit.ly/4SjCTY
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RT @healymonster Forget Plan B! http://bit.ly/6GsVca. Great Post! All aspiring freelancers should read.
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Another great post from @healymonster . Read Ryan’s blog; it’s worth it. http://bit.ly/7a9xRE #fb
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Another great post from @healymonster . Read Ryan’s blog FORGET PLAN “B” . http://bit.ly/7a9xRE #fb
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RT @GinaParris: Another great post from @healymonster . Read Ryan’s blog FORGET PLAN “B” . http://bit.ly/7a9xRE #fb
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RT @healymonster Forget Plan B! http://bit.ly/6GsVca
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RT @GinaParris: Another great post from @healymonster . Read Ryan’s blog FORGET PLAN “B” . http://bit.ly/7a9xRE #fb
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If the thought of your Plan B depresses you, then scrap it! I believe in having a plan, but a plan on where to go next – what's the next project; the next business venture, the next idea. Those are my Plan B, C, and D.
Great post!
Amen Brother!
Every successful (self-employed) person I know went through the same thing.
For me it was quitting my job on September 10th, 2001 to run my online business full time.
The next day I was REALLY doubting the wisdom of that decision and almost called my old boss to get my job back!
Glad I didn't… ;-)
Eric
Hey Ryan,
Great post bud, couldn't agree more. I went through something similar – had to quit my corporate job due to relocation, and decided right there that I was going to jump into this internet marketing stuff I'd read so much about.
Within 3 weeks of quitting the job I'd doubled my old salary, and I've never looked back.
Isn't it amazing how a little forced necessity focuses your mind?
Great post man,
-David Raybould
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Check out Forget Plan B by Ryan Healy: http://twurl.nl/hxfh85
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Thank you for all the advice you been gave to me. Now my business is in good condition. Thanks again!
Ian,
You said, “And 'cos there was no Plan B any more we did it with greater urgency and passion.”
I've found the same thing to be true when you don't have health insurance. Makes you more passionate about being healthy!
Ryan
Whew… quitting on Sep 10, 2001. That would certainly make you start second-guessing yourself. I had forgotten about your experience, Eric.
Well, I for one am glad you stayed self employed. :-)
Ryan
Thanks, David!
I love the phrase you used — “forced necessity” — a great way to describe not having a “plan B.”
Ryan
If the thought of your Plan B depresses you, then scrap it! I believe in having a plan, but a plan on where to go next – what's the next project; the next business venture, the next idea. Those are my Plan B, C, and D.
Great post!
Amen Brother!
Every successful (self-employed) person I know went through the same thing.
For me it was quitting my job on September 10th, 2001 to run my online business full time.
The next day I was REALLY doubting the wisdom of that decision and almost called my old boss to get my job back!
Glad I didn't… ;-)
Eric
Hey Ryan,
Great post bud, couldn't agree more. I went through something similar – had to quit my corporate job due to relocation, and decided right there that I was going to jump into this internet marketing stuff I'd read so much about.
Within 3 weeks of quitting the job I'd doubled my old salary, and I've never looked back.
Isn't it amazing how a little forced necessity focuses your mind?
Great post man,
-David Raybould
Ian,
You said, “And 'cos there was no Plan B any more we did it with greater urgency and passion.”
I've found the same thing to be true when you don't have health insurance. Makes you more passionate about being healthy!
Ryan
Whew… quitting on Sep 10, 2001. That would certainly make you start second-guessing yourself. I had forgotten about your experience, Eric.
Well, I for one am glad you stayed self employed. :-)
Ryan
Thanks, David!
I love the phrase you used — “forced necessity” — a great way to describe not having a “plan B.”
Ryan
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